Red lips, tied hands, tight braids, and the air in the bedroom is electrified with sexual tension. As people discover their sexuality, they often discover that they are turned on by objects that are not in themselves related to sex, or they have a strong desire to dominate or obey. There is nothing unusual or reprehensible in this – sexual fetishes are quite common. Observations of sexologists show that more than 65% of women would like to obey, 47% have fantasies about the submission of a partner, and 52% would like to try bondage.
What are the most popular sex fetishes?
Sexual fetish means that a person needs to see, feel and touch a fetish object in order to achieve orgasm during sex.
- Feet
- High-heeled shoes;
- Leather and latex clothing
- Linen
- Piercing
- Painted lips
- Braids and tails
- BDSM
What is BDSM ?
The abbreviation BDSM is divided into three parts:
BD or Bondage (bondage) and Discipline (discipline) – restrictions are set for one of the partners, for example, to speak, look or move, as well as rules are put forward, in case of violation of which punishment will follow.
DS or Dominance (dominance) and Sumbission (submission) – more associated with power, when one of the partners allows the other to completely control himself physically and / or psychologically.
SM or Sadism (sadism) and Masochism (masochism) – the sadist likes to hurt another, and the masochist gets pleasure from the pain.
There are many myths about BDSM, for example that only strange people do it, who can be recognized from afar, that if one of the partners is interested in BDSM, traditional sex will become impossible, or that BDSM causes emotional trauma.
In fact, it is through dominance that shy people can learn to be more confident in everyday life. In turn, if a routine has come in intimate life, or partners do not have sex at all, it is small steps in the direction of BDSM that can help rekindle passion. Plus, you don’t have to immediately set up a specially furnished room with full equipment and sexy toys – you can start experimenting a little, together deciding what you would like to try.
Therefore, January 18 is a meaningful day for people with sexual fetishes?
January 18 – International Fetish Day, which has been celebrated since 2009. The purpose of Fetish Day is to raise public awareness and raise awareness about various fetishes, as well as support members of fetish communities around the world.
On this day, members of the fetish communities wear purple clothing to show their affiliation.
Experts inspire you not to be afraid of your sexual fantasies, to discuss them with your partner and implement them – this will only add vivid emotions to your intimate life.
